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Loving-Groups “Gold Nugget”

When others behave badly they are in pain.

It is difficult at times “translating” other people’s behaviors from a compassionate perspective, especially if their behaviors are directed at us.

Some behaviors like being anti-social, withdrawn, attacking angrily or plain old destructive behaviors can sometimes leave us shaking our heads and asking, “why?”. These behaviors are not being seen for what they are, FEAR! They are an expression of the inner turmoil that resides within the individual. Pain drives bad behaviors and choices. People only behave badly when they lack the love in their life that eliminates their pain, fear and confusion.

So the next time someone behaves badly, you can simply ask, “how can I best help?”